Cheers guys
In the moment its more the mental side of things which are a bit tough. I know that skin cancer is one of the easier ones if caught early(I had so far 6 little buggers removed from my back) but its the not knowing bit.
Deb is more upset i think about missing the trip
but with the way the NHS works we don't want to risk missing the appointment as you never know how long it would take to get the next one.
We still will go for a weekend camping somewhere( just to take her mind of things ) but in the moment the focus is more on getting it checked out and sorted
p.s.Phil,i framed your "I thought you where a bit quiet"
just for future reference